2 years ago, I dated this guy from the Army for a month, which was a rushed relationship. When I say rushed, I mean for example: after a week of knowing and dating the guy, I stupidly said ‘I love you’ on accident. At the time, I was on birth control so my hormones were messing with my feelings and choices. This guy was only supposed to be a drunken hook-up but he ended up being my boyfriend. Anyway, that relationship of course went down-hill, my hormones were making me very sensitive and angry all the time and me and him were always arguing. It led him to suggest a ‘break’ between us. But I ended up finding out he was cheating on me so it turned into a break up. I easily moved on from that break up and found someone who treats me better. Conveniently enough, my ex-boyfriend was being shipped to Afghanistan for war. After a year, he came back. One night, he was having a house warming party with his army buddies and my bestfriend because she is dating my ex’s army buddy. He was very much drunk and texted me out of the blue. All I recall him saying is "I’m back, I’m about to get my own car and place" and "I think we should hang out sometime and catch up." Then when I was hanging out with my bestfriend, her bf and their army friends, I saw my ex. We ended up talking things over and having closure about what happened. He was very sorry about cheating on me and I am very much over it and at peace about it since it helped me find a better guy. But for some weird reason he tried to flirt with me a few times. I just kept my distance. This was 7 months ago. And now just recently, he tried texting me to "see how I was doing." and "hoped to not mess things up with my boyfriend." But I kept it short and told him my boyfriend isn’t comfortable with him talking to me. So he backed off for now. Why does he keep texting me out of nowhere like that? And saying such things and acting the way he does? And I know if he does text me again, I’ll ignore it.