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why does my ex boyfriend still text me?

by admin on April 25, 2014

my boyfriend broke up with me on November 2013. after that I never contacted him at all even though I still love him. but earlier this year we bumped into each other and had a good conversations. after that he started texting me and stuff. me and him hooked up a couple times too. but we aren’t in a relationship. he knows that I still like him and he knows I want to be in a relationship with him again but I know he isn’t going to make a move cuz I’d sent him a few texts wondering why he would ignore me and how it sorta hurt my feelings( i sent him that kind of text once earlier this month and once last month). they weren’t angry texts. it was just long, sap, and depressing texts. he told me that those texts were annoying so I never sent one again. but even tho he might not give me a chance why does he still text me and stuff?

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Marissa April 25, 2014 at 12:20 pm

Just talk to him and see how he feels

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Why does my ex boyfriend still text me?

by admin on January 18, 2014

My boyfriend recently broke up with me because he is "confused about his feelings". We were together for about a year and I love him dearly. Although I’m pretty depressed about it, I didn’t cry or get angry when he broke up with me, and I still try my best to act like I’m doing okay without him because I don’t want to give him the power/satisfaction of knowing I’m hurt if that makes sense.
Well he has been texting me every single day since the breakup. Just small talk and asking how my day was. I never text him first, he always initiates the conversations. I give him slightly distant short replies because again I don’t want him to think I want him back even though I kinda do lol. He keeps asking if we could "start over and be friends" but I refuse every time he asks. He says he’s "trying hard to give me space and not make me more angry with him". I don’t know why he’s bothering to text me everyday.
Why does he text me everyday? I’m ready to move on but his texting me makes it hard.

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Wallah all lies January 18, 2014 at 12:21 pm

He has some feelings for you still. I don’t think you should give him the power to hurt you again,

Lumpy Space January 18, 2014 at 12:21 pm

there is no such thing as ‘just friends’ with an ex.
If you do remain friends, it’s either because you were never in love in the first place, or you are still in love with each other.

Your ex sounds like he wants to get back together.
If you really want to move on, block his calls and texts. Tell him that while he was ‘confused’, you have moved on.

Wait and see if he does something to prove that he really loves you and wants you back.

geetarman56 January 18, 2014 at 12:21 pm

Sounds like he isn’t sure if he did right breaking up and maybe wants another chance ans start over. If you really don’t want that, just tell him to stop texting you all the time, that you’re moving on.

Richard January 18, 2014 at 12:21 pm

Guys still talk to old fling’s to wait for an emotional opening to revisit the honey pot…

If he was interested in only a relationship he wouldn’t have ended it while unsure about his feelings. He would have waited until he was certain he didn’t love you. You are being played… Now this all being said, you are handling the breakup like a child, it is not a matter of power or satisfaction, as you need to not let it hurt you. It is okay to love someone, you will love many in your path to finding the one. You will only ever be loved back once, and it is this that you should be sad about ever losing.

I would suggest asking your parents to block his number. All phone carrier provide this ability, so it shouldn’t be an issue. I hope this all helps you and stay firm in your decision to stay separated from him.

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Why does my ex boyfriend still text me?

by admin on August 13, 2013

I will be asking him soon, but I just want to see what everyone else’s opinions are with this. He and I dated for 6 months till he broke up with me, because we lived far apart. I couldn’t drive and he can. It just didn’t work. Then I started kinda talking to another guy at my school. My ex started texting me again 2 weeks after we broke up. We got back together. Everything was going good. Till that problem came again in early June. I started talking to that guy I was talking to early.. Then we dated. My ex just texted me a couple of weeks ago. Every day he texts me. He is even talking to someone, but he already tells me he doesn’t know. She’s "different." Not me. What do you guys think he wants?

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Qocial Lover August 13, 2013 at 12:21 pm

He still loves you.

. August 13, 2013 at 12:21 pm

You need someone who wants to be with you……

soccer girl August 13, 2013 at 12:21 pm

honestly just move on, let’s just say you get back with your es. what’s the next step ? would u guys be able to see each other ? why go through the same thing again

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Why does my EX-BOYFRIEND still text me?

by admin on August 11, 2013

Ok so I will try to make this story as short as possible. My ex is 22, I’m 19. He just graduated college and is working full-time, I’m going to be a sophomore in college and live ON CAMPUS, 30 minutes away from him in 2 weeks. We dated for 9 months. I never really loved him, I just didn’t want to be lonely.
Anyway, he told me to stop texting my ex while we were dating, so I did to respect him. Yet, he continued to text his ex. I kept giving him chances to stop, but I would keep catching him texting her or hanging out with her.
Finally I told him, "I had enough, you’re being hypocritical. I think that if you are still talking to your ex there are feelings involved and we should take a BREAK".
He flips out at me, calling me immature, a baby, rude, and says I will never find another guy like him, and he doesn’t chase women, blah, blah, blah. He said I crossed a line. Anyway this led to a huge arguement where I called him a bad boyfriend and told him he doesn’t respect my wishes. So we took a 3 week break. I had sex with someone on the break as a rebound, it didn’t mean anything- just to get him off my mind ( I DID NOT TELL MY EX I SLEPT WITH SOMEONE ).
Anyway, I asked if we were still in a relationship after the three week break. He said, "No we are not. But I wish it didn’t happen like this"
I said "Ok. I hope we both find someone who will make us happy one day. Goodbye"
Then he said, "Wait, I thought we were going to work on us???"
I told him, "sure, we can work on us" just to be polite but I’m f*cking done dealing with his stupid bullish*t and bossy behavior.

Anyway, he texts me at midnight last night saying he’s sorry and that this is all his fault. Then he keeps texting me everyday, sometimes still calling me babe, and asking me whats up. I’ve been giving him one word answers, texting back hours late, and NEVER texting him first until he gets the hint.
Why does he still want to talk?
I think when it’s over, it’s over. I think ex’s should not talk for a while so they can get over each other and move on.
My question is, why does he still talk to me? Does he want to be friends? Because I have no desire to be friends with him. I don’t like him at all, he angers me, and I think he’s stupid.
Feedback??

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Arethusa August 11, 2013 at 12:21 pm

OK.

The reason why he is still texting you is because

YOU TOLD HIM "SURE, WE CAN WORK ON US!"

OMG, you are the one who needs to get the hint.

TELL HIM you are over!
TELL HIM!
TELL HIM!

Geez.
Guys don’t read minds, you know.

Electra Heart August 11, 2013 at 12:21 pm

You just have to lay it out flat, and say you don’t have feelings for him anymore.
Maybe he talks to you because he knows you’re a great girl, and he doesn’t want to let you get away. However, you shouldn’t stay with someone if they don’t make you truly happy. I hope it all works out. Goodluck.

Kasia August 11, 2013 at 12:21 pm

In the long run, it doesn’t really matter whether or not he still wants to be friends or if he wants to date you or even catch you for a quicky. What matters is that you’re not interested in him and that you don’t want a relationship with him in any form.

That said, you should tell him straight instead of passive-aggressively ignoring him. Unfortunately, people like to live in denial and they usually won’t pay attention to subtle hints because they’re selfish as a whole. Some will even intentionally ignore them because they don’t want to hear it. You should tell him clearly that you don’t want to talk to him, you’re not interested in dating him again or being friends, and for him to kindly lose your number. There’s no need to be rude, though he’ll probably be a jerk about it because frankly no one likes to hear that they are not wanted. If he is, stop replying/hang up.

If you’re worried about retaliation, he doesn’t lay off even after you tell him clearly that you’re not interested, or don’t want to be "that person", most telephone companies can/will block numbers at the request of their customers, particularly if you mention that the person is harassing you.

Hopefully he lays off and you’re left in peace. I know what it’s like to have someone who just can. Not. Take. A. Hint. It’s super aggravating.

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Why does my ex boyfriend still text me ?

by admin on July 2, 2013

He broke up with me like a week ago . It was a normal brakeup , but it did really hurt me . Anyways , he texts me everyday , & our conversations are always the same . He also always asks me to video chat him . & he calls me on the phone a couple of times . Does he miss me ? Or what ? He broke up with me , so I don’t really know whats up , & the day we broke up he asks me if we can just be friends , soo is he just trying to be friends with me ? What do you think ?

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No July 2, 2013 at 12:22 pm

he still likes you. I have done the same thing. I broke up with the girl of my dreams a terrible stupid way. We are great friends now she forgave me but I am in love with her and she is dating someone else that she like very very much. He likes you though he may have thought it would be a good idea or he got talked into it and realized he made a mistake. Hope that helped

Amy July 2, 2013 at 12:22 pm

Well yeh i think he is just trying to be friends, but if he still talks to you the same saying all lovey dovey stuff then tell him to stop and that your not a toy or someone to use till you find a new girlfriend, if he still talks to you the same as in texting then he is just using you as a toy, idk thats what i think.

yahoo user July 2, 2013 at 12:22 pm

He wants to talk what do you say in return to him.

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Why does my ex boyfriend still text me ?

by admin on July 2, 2013

He broke up with me like a week ago . It was a normal brakeup , but it did really hurt me . Anyways , he texts me everyday , & our conversations are always the same . He also always asks me to video chat him . & he calls me on the phone a couple of times . Does he miss me ? Or what ? He broke up with me , so I don’t really know whats up , & the day we broke up he asks me if we can just be friends , soo is he just trying to be friends with me ? What do you think ?

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pukar July 2, 2013 at 12:22 pm

sombody says that importance of anything is unknown unless it is lost.so same thng hapen to him.after losing u,he knew ur importance.

Brown July 2, 2013 at 12:22 pm

cuz he still likes you. u can never get friend-zoned when you actually loved each other before.

Ennamul Khan July 2, 2013 at 12:22 pm

He like you very much.I also like you for sharing your problem.
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Tina J July 2, 2013 at 12:22 pm

he wants you

Racer July 2, 2013 at 12:22 pm

Ask him. How would we know?

princessd July 2, 2013 at 12:22 pm

Could just be out of habit. Men are creatures of habit. He may miss you… But you could also just be part of his routine. Also depends on who broke up with who… And how long was the relationship.

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why does my ex boyfriend still text me?

by admin on May 16, 2013

me and my ex got together May of 2010 or 2011 (grade 10). We met at a party and he liked me because i wasn’t slutty and we got along really well. We stopped seeing each other in august because he invited me over to his house and i didn’t even touch him "down there"… i was very innocent back then and he was the second guy i ever kissed. I felt really bad because he still liked me and wanted to see me, but every time we were going to see each other again something came up… i think he thought i didn’t like him anymore.

Anyways, now i’ve moved on. i have a new boyfriend that i’m absolutely in love with. we’re planning to get married when we turn 18. but my ex always texts me randomly. he texts me like every occasion (christmas,thanksgiving, my birthday etc.) and i texted him on his birthday just to be nice. today he texted me "hey Ashley, how have you been? we haven’t talked in the longest time :) " my dad took away my phone because i went over my minutes so i didn’t text him back, but why is he still talking to me? we got together in grade ten…. we’re in grade 12 now.. i don’t get it…
why wouldnt he have made a better effort to see me when we broke up in the first place then?

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Jared May 16, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Because he wants to get into your pants. its called a booty call. learn to spot one.

Or maybe he misses you. But which is more likely? i’ll let you decide….

Lindsey May 16, 2013 at 12:21 pm

he still has feelings for you. DUH

Acy May 16, 2013 at 12:21 pm

He wants you back, wants you back wants wants you wants you back!! Lol ;) ask him!

A Hopeful Pessimist May 16, 2013 at 12:21 pm

I think that you should call him to catch up and tell him you have a boyfriend now. I think what he’s doing is innocent. He’s texting an ex of his to see how she’s been, that sounds okay to me. He might not even be interested in you that way. So I’d just call him to catch up like I said, and kindly let him know that you are in a serious relationship.

Jalapanio May 16, 2013 at 12:21 pm

yea after u said u wanted to get married when you turn 18 and your in grade 12.. yah i have nothing to say

Love Is Hurt May 16, 2013 at 12:21 pm

He obviously still has feelings for you. There is no reason he would be texting you unless he regretted the break up and missed you. He may be sending you mixed messages but that is because he is confused. When people break up they act based on their emotions, that is why he is probably all over the place and you don’t know how he really feels. Take it as a positive sign if you want him back.

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Why does my ex boyfriend still text me?

by admin on May 16, 2013

me and my ex got together May of 2010 or 2011 (grade 10). We met at a party and he liked me because i wasn’t slutty and we got along really well. We stopped seeing each other in august because he invited me over to his house and i didn’t even touch him "down there"… i was very innocent back then and he was the second guy i ever kissed. I felt really bad because he still liked me and wanted to see me, but every time we were going to see each other again something came up… i think he thought i didn’t like him anymore.

Anyways, now i’ve moved on. i have a new boyfriend that i’m absolutely in love with. we’re planning to get married when we turn 18. but my ex always texts me randomly. he texts me like every occasion (christmas,thanksgiving, my birthday etc.) and i texted him on his birthday just to be nice. today he texted me "hey Ashley, how have you been? we haven’t talked in the longest time :) " my dad took away my phone because i went over my minutes so i didn’t text him back, but why is he still talking to me? we got together in grade ten…. we’re in grade 12 now.. i don’t get it…
stfu bro…. you dont know anything….
stfu bro…. you dont know anything….

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Kermit May 16, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Rofl you are going to get married at age 18. Goodluck with that. Ill give it 1 year before the divorce.

EDIT: UMADBRO?

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Why does my ex boyfriend still text me?

by admin on May 9, 2013

My ex boyfriend and I broke up in the summer. He cheated on me and broke up with me and dated the girl he cheated on with after and did a bunch more stuff to hurt me after. They broke up a while ago and he has texted me and called me ever since the day we broke up. It used to be every day now it’s only once and a while saying hey or whats up or saying sorry about what he did, etc. I was just curious why he always does this and I ignore him every time and he still will call me or text me once and a while

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Tom May 9, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Guys are twaaattsss, simple as… They will crave attention regardless if the girl is who they like or not

Nicole May 9, 2013 at 12:21 pm

He probably regrets cheating on you and realises you’re too good for him so he now wants you back.

Boys can be idiots, always want what they can’t have :)

Silver May 9, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Crap truth is lots of guys like to have multiple options when it comes to girls so it kinda seems like he’s just keeping you as another option for the future… you were right to ignore him, if he’s cheated on you in the past and all your feelings are goen, move one! :)

Ty May 9, 2013 at 12:21 pm

You have started the right path by initiating no contact, but did you initiate it correctly?

It sounds to me like you don’t have a plan for no contact. This is a mistake, it you aren’t careful or don’t know how to properly use no contact in a breakup then you can easily create more problems. I am putting a link in the sources box that will help you if you are new to the concept of no contact.

Regardless of what you do, I wish you the best of luck. Breakups are tough, keep your head up and remember: This, like all things, shall pass too.

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Why does my ex boyfriend still text me?

by admin on May 5, 2013

-He was my "first love" it was in Middle School. I guess it was puppy love but I really did like him.
-We were only together for like a month. He broke up with me.

So I’m a senior now and he is a junior. He has a girlfriend. They’ve been together for probably like almost 2 years. And he says Hi to me whenever he sees me at school. But lately you know he’s been texting me and I don’t know if he’s just playing with me or what. Or if he still likes me, if hes flirting or I’m just a sideline hoe?? But he has a gf…

I don’t know I’m so confused /:

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Skyline_pigeon May 5, 2013 at 12:21 pm

It’s hard to say why he still texts you, but the truth is, you might never know for sure. If he still likes you, he should obviously rethink his current relationship. If he’s just trying to be nice, well, so be it. I guess the most important thing is how it makes you feel. Do you like texting him, or does it make you uncomfortable or hurt you in some way? If it doesn’t make you feel good to text him, then you should just try to ignore him a bit. I’m not saying you have to be rude, but don’t feel like you need to text him if you don’t want to. If you like texting him, that’s all fine and good. But of course, remember that he has a girlfriend. Good luck!

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Why does my ex-boyfriend still text me?

by admin on April 9, 2013

My ex broke up with me a year ago. We had been dating for 5 months. I have not seen him since we broke up. However, every couple of months, he insists on sending me a text message. I have never replied to any of them. It’s been over 365 days since we had any contact so why doesn’t he realize that he isn’t part of my life?
Also, his texts make it sound like we’re still super close and not like we haven’t seen each in a year.

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Veronica C April 9, 2013 at 12:21 pm

He’s a slow learner…

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Why does my ex-boyfriend still text me?

by admin on December 24, 2012

He broke up with me two months ago, He always text me but never seems to apologize and also he only text me around 10pm. Today he texted " Hi, Love (his name)". Does he still miss me or is he playing games with me and why does he only text me late at night only

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Morgan M December 24, 2012 at 11:00 am

Because men get horny late at night. And he’s thinking about you in THAT way, maybe hugging his pillow, wishing you were there. Just text him back and say "I’m not gonna text you this late. I’m using my fingers for something much more satisfying. I’m sure you can relate."

Jamie December 24, 2012 at 11:00 am

He probably texts you late at night because whoever else he is texting either stopped texting him or didnt text back. He might still care and want to talk a little but it could be a possibility you are his last source to text at night.. Sorry he broke up with you. :(

Cora Explorer December 24, 2012 at 11:00 am

I guess he’s playing some sort of game, but I don’t know which one. Ignore.

Megan P December 24, 2012 at 11:00 am

Booty call!

Lauren R December 24, 2012 at 11:00 am

sounds like he does it out of boredom.. don’t throw yourself off of a cliff trying to respond. ignore him; he is treating you like trash playing child games

? December 24, 2012 at 11:00 am

it sounds like a game. ignore it is the best advice i can think of, if there is no children involved then contact should have stopped. and he might be texting at night to see what you’re up to. it could be one of those "i dont want you but dont want no one else to have you either" games. either way, it sounds like a game. RUN!

(: beautiful and Unique :) December 24, 2012 at 11:00 am

at least your ex txts you mine doesnt :(

it sucks…but idk guys do really get horny late at night so it could be that he just wants to be a F*ck buddy idk cud be

? December 24, 2012 at 11:00 am

there something around that time that triggers him to text go or it just might be that he is bored around that time that he just texts you to see if you will reply back.

RoXy S2 So December 24, 2012 at 11:00 am

they do that to me too! omg.. i dont know why but 2 of my exs always look for me at night.. i just give them what they want ;) i dont mind.. our relationships were never serious anyway.. i think the other 2 girls are right though.. its sad but oh well =]

Uzbekistan Football Federation December 24, 2012 at 11:00 am

because you mean the world to him and he regrets it but doesnt want to show it

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Why does my ex-boyfriend still text me?

by admin on December 5, 2012

Its been two years, we were together for three. He has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend. But he still texts me all the time saying he wants to see me and sending me naked pictures. I feel this is so wrong and keep telling him to stop and asking him how he can do that to his current girlfriend. But of course in the back of my mind I’m wondering if he did things like this behind my back when we were together. I don’t want to change my phone number but I really wish he would stop. Any advice? My current boyfriend doews not know that my ex is doing this, and I don’t want to hurt him by telling him. Its not my fault and I feel that I have done nothing wrong. I am not enjoying this at all!

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Infinite.Crysis December 5, 2012 at 12:20 pm

tell him to stop.. block his number if it’s effecting you this much.. and forward the messages to his girlfriend (if you have her number.. although i’m sure you’d be able to get it)

Hopethishelps! December 5, 2012 at 12:20 pm

yeah i would forward them to his girlfriend adn i would also tell your boyfriend as well to get things out in the open, maybe you’re boyfriend has an idea on what to do

Erictron 2008 December 5, 2012 at 12:20 pm

You need to lay down the law and tell him you are over him and you don’t want him to keep annoying you. If he has a girlfriend he should not care about you. Threaten to tell his girlfriend or something.

natmac December 5, 2012 at 12:20 pm

HI, on most mobiles nowadays there is a function to block one number…try and block his…..
Worst comes to the worst, forward the texts he sends to his current girlfriend if you have her number!!!
Good Luck!

Rachael H December 5, 2012 at 12:20 pm

He obviously likes sending you pictures of him so you wont forget him!

Tell him if he doesnt stop you will go to the police for sexual harrasment!

If he keeps it up do go to the police!

You dont like it and shouldnt put up with it!

Hope dis helped!

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gzwizze21 December 5, 2012 at 12:20 pm

I don’t think you should forward them to his girlfriend- She’ll probably get really mad at YOU and think you’ve been asking him to do stuff like this.
Tell your boyfriend, but make sure he knows that you’re upset and annoyed by it.
I guess block the guy’s number and avoid him as much as you can- He’ll get the hint eventually.

Cheryl J December 5, 2012 at 12:20 pm

Block his number and never open a text from him tell him to stop or you will get an order of protection it is wrong for him to send you those kind of pictures and how would you feel if you were the other woman
You could have been another woman in his life
He does not sound like someone to be in a relationship with be care full
Don’t hide things from your boyfriend let him know that he is texting you and you are putting a block on him

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