Why does my boyfriends ex wife continue to text after a year and a half?

by admin on January 2, 2013

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Puddy Tat January 2, 2013 at 12:20 pm

Why do you think? And the real question is why does he allow it????

Luis January 2, 2013 at 12:20 pm

she still wants him!! talk to him!! tell him that it makes you uncomfortable! and that if he cares for you he would decide on something to make you happy!!

vodkaqueen January 2, 2013 at 12:20 pm

why does your bf give his number to her is the question if they have kids then they should be in touch if not get ur bf to change his number and don’t give her it looks to me like he wants her to keep in touch.

It's all about the Benjamins January 2, 2013 at 12:20 pm

1. She still cares for him.
2. She’s not happy with her life.
3. Control.

What you need to do is:

1. Ignore it
2. Tell your boyfriend to loose her number, why is she texting him?
3. Don’t let her get the best of you

Good luck.

jude January 2, 2013 at 12:20 pm

If they have children together its ok if not its not ok.

KJ III January 2, 2013 at 12:20 pm

she texts him because he texts her back.

my ex wife did that, and after i ignored her for about 2 weeks, it stopped.

War Pig January 2, 2013 at 12:20 pm

You are being played the fool essay!

Pugilist January 2, 2013 at 12:20 pm

Either she still cares for him or they had an amicable divorce and are still friends.

You can be jealous about it or trust him until he gives you a reason not to trust him. Or you can make a big deal about it, he will continue to do it behind your back, and you will convince him you are a raving lunatic looking to control his life, you two will split, and he may find someone more mature.

Heatherrrrrrrr January 2, 2013 at 12:20 pm

Sometimes people are better friends after they are divorced. My mom got remarried and divorced. They never had kids. They still talk and email. If you are really threatened by it then express your feelings. Doesn’t sound like any explanation will work for you. If you trust your bf and can accept that he may be friends with her then you will be just fine. If this will be a constant source of issue then you should break up. Giving him an ultimatum to pick between her and you will usually end badly for the person giving the ultimatum.

Suze January 2, 2013 at 12:20 pm

been there, done that – as long as he allows it to continue, it will. She still wants him in her life – it is a connection to him. Do they have kids? If not, she has no business texting him. But HE has to make her go away. He has to tell her point blank, please don’t text me anymore. If it continues, you know he tried and he just can’t respond back. She’ll get the message soon enough.

cjlpn3 January 2, 2013 at 12:20 pm

If they have children, she may text because she doesn’t want to speak to him in person. If they do not have children, then she wants him.

EL January 2, 2013 at 12:20 pm

If they have a child together, some sort of communication is necessary. If not, then it has been his choice to not tell her either stop, or to ignore all communication all together. I doubt she would keep doing it after a year and a half if she has NEVER gotten a response.

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