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Why did my ex boyfriend text me?

by admin on July 17, 2013

We broke up in the beginning of June and we dated for four months. He just didn’t seem interested anymore so I decided to end it. I haven’t spoke to him since, nor do I have any interest to. I also deleted him as a friend from Facebook. So today, out of nowhere, he messages me on Facebook saying "Hey what’s up?". We aren’t even friends. Why would he message me this
I do not want him back at all, I just ignored this message.

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Krasie Kat July 17, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Maybe he misses you, or was thinking about you? xD See what he wants?

Moving Forward. July 17, 2013 at 12:21 pm

What else would it be for….he wants some sex.. when they don’t get any they call an ex.

sunmecca July 17, 2013 at 12:21 pm

No ignore him, He is treating you like are what guys have in their little black books under "back burner" category. If the guy is experiencing a boring or flat period of excitement, then he calls the second class girl with mid-low self esteem. Then when something super exciting is happening like V.I.P. night down town with the high profile friends he won’t be bringing you out for those cooler events.

Good Plenty July 17, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Most men don’t change within a month in a half, some don’t
change for years. He has nothing going on right now on
the sex tip, so your his second choice. He figures if sucking
up will make you feel sorry for him, you will stop drop and roll
with your legs up…all in that order.

Move on hun

Latin G July 17, 2013 at 12:21 pm

He wants a booty call.

Schuyler July 17, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Only one way to find out.

Penela July 17, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Probably curious about how things are going for you. Why don’t you ask him?

C.R July 17, 2013 at 12:21 pm

because you are probably plan B.

stumpedII July 17, 2013 at 12:21 pm

good for you.. u do both of you a favor when your harsh and resolute.. once you cross that friend line.. and become lovers. it’s hard to go back to where u were.. Myself i have no desires to have any x’s in my life.. x’s are mistakes.. not to be repeated nor endured further.. the only exception is if there were kids involved or family.. then i would treat them politely like any stranger.. but not have anythign to dowith them.

--- July 17, 2013 at 12:21 pm

It’s still a bit fresh.

jess July 17, 2013 at 12:21 pm

In my opinion, he wants to be friends with you and probably misses you. If you dont want him back as a boyfriend, be friends with him if he didn’t seem interest anymore, dont talk to him

BabeHart July 17, 2013 at 12:21 pm

This belongs in Singles & DATING…

…and since we don’t know the guy, there is no way we can know why he texted you…if you’ve chosen to ignore it, then it really doesn’t matter…block his number and get on with your life…

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Why did my ex boyfriend text me?

by admin on May 6, 2013

we have been broken up for over a year now and he has a new girlfriend that he has been with since march. we went out for a year a half and things ended really badly. about a week ago he texted me at 2:45 am "did i just see you?" i responded the next morning an we had a nice chat about college and music. why did he text me? im confused about it.

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tanbirsingh May 6, 2013 at 12:21 pm

He knows that he has mistaken to leave u.

Nada May 6, 2013 at 12:21 pm

In my point of view , He may have seen you somewhere and he got that feeling of nostalgia. Maybe the thing between him and his new girlfriend was to forget all about you and about how badly you two broke up , its like he wanted to have a new beginning but when he saw you things got different.
For now , take him as a friend and if he asks you back , it depends on how you feel towards him right now .And if you two still have feelings for each other , then maybe this time it might work out , since you two are willing to fix things up or just become two friends.. but i have never actually heard about the Two lovers who turned out to be Friends ! if you’re okay with being friends with him , then you have never actually loved him

Resp'cia May 6, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Booty call.

Kyle May 6, 2013 at 12:21 pm

He misses you.

Brenna May 6, 2013 at 12:21 pm

He could be going through a bad time with his current girlfriend, or just thought he would say hi. Sometimes guys are super confusing like that and you may not hear from him again…

Unique May 6, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Booty call.. :(

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why did my ex boyfriend text me?

by admin on April 28, 2013

well i was at this get together for one of my friends, and of course i walk in and my exboyfriend of 3 years is there, we broke up about 2 months ago and havent talked at all, he actually hardcore avoids me. so at this place he gets drunk out of his mind and acts like a complete idiot and my friends and i decide to leave because we had nothing to do 10 minutes after i leave i get a text from him saying "are you all okay??" i just responded ya why and 2 hours later he texts me "just makin sure your all good. like not arrested" i know it makes not sense at all… i havent answer yet since. but what does that even mean? does that mean anything? im really confused

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Silver April 28, 2013 at 12:21 pm

ii think he was drunk textin you…

Tiana April 28, 2013 at 12:21 pm

^ yeah obvisouly he was drunk. I think you want it to mean something but if he’s been avoiding you before why all of a sudden would he willingly text you?
And why do either of you still have each others number?
Maybe you should have a talk with him. Or think if your really even over him 3 years is a long time and 2 months isnt long enough to get over someone.

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Why did my ex boyfriend text me?

by admin on April 5, 2013

This morning, I woke up to 3 texts. 2 from 2 friends… and 1 from him. A simple "hey" really… which I replied to with "hai?" Because, He hasnt texted me for a week. He’ll randomly stop texting me so I was in mild shock. To give him a sip of his medication I would focus mostly on the other two people so it would take me 3-8 minutes to text back.
Conversation:

Him: Hey…
Me: Hai?
Him: How are you love?
Me: Fantastic, Though im not your "love." Why?
Him: Well excuse me…
Me: o_e
Him: -hugs- ;)
Me: e_e
Him: What? I cant hug you anymore?
Me: why would you want to hug me?
Him: cause I miss your hugs…
Me: shivering aches awaits the patient. o_e
Him: Here, I’ll keep you warm and comfortable -pulls you into my lap and cuddles you-
Me: No need to be physical…
Him ~my name~ Stop acting like that..
Me: Like what?
him: So distant.. cmere baby… -holds out my arms-
Me: What the hell?
Him: What?
Me: Nothing… Why did you text me?

And now he hasnt texted me back. The cyber stuff was a bit freaky… we use to do it occasionally when we were seperate but he could have always came over to where I lived and risked getting in trouble. Anyway… what does this mean? This guy has put me through hell and I don’t want to go through it again with him. Im the one who broke up because I was tired of him. I do sometimes miss him, but I guess it’s just the routine in getting over someone. Sorry if it’s long.. but thank you for answering. :]
Kids? o_e Uhm… i’m 16… he’s 19 Thank you very much. ;]
Kids? o_e Uhm… i’m 16… he’s 19 Thank you very much. ;]

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Amber April 5, 2013 at 12:21 pm

I’d say he wants you back. But he also sounds creepy….

Christian April 5, 2013 at 12:21 pm

It’s cause he still has interest in you. From the looks of the texts you two would seem like kids which is why you are getting comments calling you kids. But with the ages you have given it is just clear that he is trying to get with you and get somewhere further with you in those cyber messages. It would seem easy to him as it looks or as he would like to think if he is coming back to you that easily. He is just trying to get what he wants is all. If the relationship wasn’t good between you two then I would say it’s not worth texting if he is not willing the text as just a friend or be friendly about it.

Cosmini April 5, 2013 at 12:21 pm

man how old are you kids?

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Why did my ex boyfriend text me?

by admin on March 30, 2013

He broke up with me like two weeks ago. I asked him why he texted me and said he just wanted to see how I was then told me I should text him sometime. Does he still like me or something??

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Liz♥ March 30, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Maybee Justt Messing Withh Your Emotions Or Maybee He Realizes What He Lost & Is Trying To Get You Baack ♥ ~Liz(:

sushi March 30, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Most likely yes, I mean… what other reason would he have to do so? The question is do you still like him? He still has feelings for you and so now it’s up to you as to how you react to it. I hope everything goes alright.

Nunka P.! March 30, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Dont let him play with you emotions hun . Move on . . How about you let him text you sometimes . Seems like he still cares .

Ursan March 30, 2013 at 12:21 pm

booty call. Keeping his options open.

Arlene March 30, 2013 at 12:21 pm

He still cares about you, unlike mine. Mine just dropped me for some girl at his work!

? March 30, 2013 at 12:21 pm

My boyfriend dumped me without reason eight months ago. Once a month or so, he texts me and says he misses and love me. You need to stay strong. Don’t give in to him. He’s just trying to test his control over you and it’s up to you to make sure he understands you’ve moved on. If u have indeed. Goodluck.

Moriah March 30, 2013 at 12:21 pm

He is your ex right? Then don’t over think the whole thing, if he was really trying to make an impression on you then he would physically show up in front of you and tell you, and if he doesn’t then it doesn’t matter because re hashing old drama or whatever just isn’t healthy, and that is guaranteed to happen if he continues texting you.

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Why did my ex boyfriend text me?

by admin on March 4, 2013

soo basically he was my first love and be broke my heart. we only dated about 3 months but I fell so hard for him. anyways he broke up with me in April and I am still getting over him. he texted me tonight "heyy!" why would he text me?

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♥☺♥☺♥ March 4, 2013 at 12:21 pm

he maybe misses you or he wants to be friends beacuse he felt guilty to what he did

Tabi March 4, 2013 at 12:21 pm

He’s probably interested in seeing what you’re up to, who/if you’re dating.. he probably misses you or was just curious to see how you would react.

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Why did my ex boyfriend text me?

by admin on February 14, 2013

Ok so he ended things about a month ago. We haven’t really talked since but he sometimes flirts a little with me, looks at me, or smiles at me. All things tht he did before we started dating. ok so the other day he sent me a text giving me his new number. Strange rite. Well yesterday he texted me and we had a short pleasant convo, he asked me wht I was doing, and how my day was, etc. Then he just said well I gtg. Idk confusing. So idk he hasn’t texted bak and im not texting him, but why did he give me his new number, and talk to me like he did when we were dating? Strange. Is it possible tht he still likes me? Thanks :)

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Isamu Himura February 14, 2013 at 12:20 pm

Yea.. It sounds like he misses you..

suntanfarmerboy February 14, 2013 at 12:20 pm

He probably still likes you, or made a mistake in breaking up. It happens. As a guy I know that sometimes you don’t appreciate things until there gone or that he wants you now that he doesn’t have you. Very corny but it’s true sometimes.

ballerina145 February 14, 2013 at 12:20 pm

He either is trying to patch things up between you because he misses you, or he’s just trying to keep in touch because he still wants you in his life.

Answer mine please?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110220174524AAK9V9J

Nicole February 14, 2013 at 12:20 pm

It sounds like he misses you and still wants to remain being good friends.

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Why did my ex boyfriend text me?

by admin on February 14, 2013

Ok so he ended things about a month ago. We haven’t really talked since but he sometimes flirts a little with me, looks at me, or smiles at me. All things tht he did before we started dating. ok so the other day he sent me a text giving me his new number. Strange rite. Well yesterday he texted me and we had a short pleasant convo, he asked me wht I was doing, and how my day was, etc. Then he just said well I gtg. Idk confusing. So idk he hasn’t texted bak and im not texting him, but why did he give me his new number, and talk to me like he did when we were dating? Strange. Is it possible tht he still likes me? Thanks :)

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Isamu Himura February 14, 2013 at 12:20 pm

Yea.. It sounds like he misses you..

suntanfarmerboy February 14, 2013 at 12:20 pm

He probably still likes you, or made a mistake in breaking up. It happens. As a guy I know that sometimes you don’t appreciate things until there gone or that he wants you now that he doesn’t have you. Very corny but it’s true sometimes.

ballerina145 February 14, 2013 at 12:20 pm

He either is trying to patch things up between you because he misses you, or he’s just trying to keep in touch because he still wants you in his life.

Answer mine please?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110220174524AAK9V9J

Nicole February 14, 2013 at 12:20 pm

It sounds like he misses you and still wants to remain being good friends.

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Why did my ex boyfriend text me?

by admin on February 14, 2013

Ok so he ended things about a month ago. We haven’t really talked since but he sometimes flirts a little with me, looks at me, or smiles at me. All things tht he did before we started dating. ok so the other day he sent me a text giving me his new number. Strange rite. Well yesterday he texted me and we had a short pleasant convo, he asked me wht I was doing, and how my day was, etc. Then he just said well I gtg. Idk confusing. So idk he hasn’t texted bak and im not texting him, but why did he give me his new number, and talk to me like he did when we were dating? Strange. Is it possible tht he still likes me? Thanks :)

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herbalchef February 14, 2013 at 12:20 pm

Hes playing games…. I would stop talking to him unless you want to get hurt again

Cheergirl'squestions February 14, 2013 at 12:20 pm

Maybe he just wants to be friends.. My bf did the same. He texted me and started talking to me but were friends now. Just move on girl .

x-xx-x February 14, 2013 at 12:20 pm

duhhhh:) of course he still likes you. he gave u like 3 big clues tht he wants to link up.
GOOD LUCK with ur relationship:)

Jorde Lenoy February 14, 2013 at 12:20 pm

Yes! He still likes you. Trust me. He does. He misses you too. He probably wants to get back with you as well.

ojos*marrones February 14, 2013 at 12:20 pm

Because he still does like you, otherwise he wouldn’t have given you his new number. He might have been busy when you text that’s why he didn’t reply, but instead of not texting, leave it for a week then coolly send him a "friend" text asking him how things are going.

Tobi A February 14, 2013 at 12:20 pm

yea he does. But he wants you to text him and ask him wassup. But only do it if you want to get back with him. hes already initiated by sending you his new number and being nice and stuff. Now, you have to text him. he doesnt wanna push the button and harrass you if youre not interested in him, so send him a line

Kolby February 14, 2013 at 12:20 pm

Well maybe he liked you the whole time but had things to think about. Maybe he wasn’t ready for a relationship. A lot of things can factor into this. But don’t push him away. Let him keep doing what he is doing. And you can just keep doing what you’re doing. Don’t start being all on him and showing him that he means a lot to you. Play it cool. Good luck!

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Why did my ex boyfriend text me?

by admin on February 13, 2013

Ok so he broke up with me bout a month ago. And now all of a sudden he texted me 2 days ago this:
Him- hey it’s (his name) I got a new number
Well i replied a day later and this Is wht happened:
Me- u got a new phone?
Him- ya can’t talk
Me- sure
Well I thought he was blowing me off but today he texted me this:
him- hey
Me- hey
Him- wht ya doin
Me- nm wbu
Him- same how was ur day and wht did u do
Me- good, I went shopping I’ll brb
Him- well I gtg
So idk Im so confused…does he want to talk or not? He used to ask me bout my day, when he liked so Im confused!! Idk wht do u think? Thanks :) sorry it’s long

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Charlie Bartlett February 13, 2013 at 12:20 pm

See if you are hanging on . Looking for a booty call !!

Morgan February 13, 2013 at 12:20 pm

no you’re over thinking things. that was a friendly conversation, he’s just trying to be friends with you, me and my ex are friends and we have conversations like that… sometimes dont think to much about things, just let them happen

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Why did my ex boyfriend text me?

by admin on February 7, 2013

Why did my ex boyfriend of a year and a half text me?

first he texted he has been missing me back in november. Then he texted me when i texted me to tell me how a particular movie was. He responds if i text him. Not all the time but most of the time. And if i don’t text him for a while (playing the no contact rule) he will text me out of the blue.

What is going on. We were together for 4 years. Then we broke up due to mututal understanding over "living each other lives without each other for a while because it was getting too serious and he is 2 years younger then me. He is now 23 and i am 25. Can someone tell me what the hell may be going on with him.Or why he does that.

Thanks

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Andrew February 7, 2013 at 12:20 pm

i did this to my ex girlfriend years ago…….and im afraid to say that altho i did miss her it was only when i was bored or fancied abit of you no what would i text her….you should nt waist any time on him,as you said u broke up for a reason…four years is along time but i suspect he likes the fact that your always there for him like a worm on the end of a fishing line…
do yourself a favor and dont respond.

tillermabe February 7, 2013 at 12:20 pm

no, and I wouldn’t blame you if you answered him or not..he’s tripping because he don’t have what he wants, then he wants you, and your right back where you started again..If you haven’t met someone you like yet, tell him..and if you have, and you like him, tell him, and if your somewhere in the middle of all that, sway more towards the one you haven’t been through this with over and over again..because he might have rethought that he is ready for a relationship, but if your not, tell him..or if he’s just calling for a booty call, and that’s all you want..tell him..honesty is absolutely the only thing you two can do for each other right, until you figure out what you truly want your life to be like.

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why did my ex boyfriend text me?

by admin on January 24, 2013

ok so my ex and I dated for about 6 months and here recently we have been hanging out ( like with friends) and he text me last night (1 month after we broke up) and told me he had a great time hanging out with me and to have a happy thanksgiving. He also told my brother yesterday that he thinks i’m playing a game on trying to get him back, but i’m not.
His sister told me that I should give him time and he will come around. He and his dad arn’t very close and he has been hurt by his dad his whole life so she was pretty much telling me that he isn’t used to dealing with things like this and that she thought he still likes me.

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dee January 24, 2013 at 12:20 pm

he wants you back…

Jonny B January 24, 2013 at 12:20 pm

Well quite simply he was thinking about you. Thought like sending you a message. It could be just friendly, you obviously impacted his life. But if this texts continue then you know there is more to it. And you have to decide what you want to do from there.

KoTtOnMoUtH KwEeN January 24, 2013 at 12:20 pm

he wants you back, my first love trys to get ahold of me all the time, but we had a Really bad relationship [ bad 4 me atleast lol]. He tells me all the time that he wants to be back with me, infact any ex that still talks to you still thinks about you in that way. i say forget about him, im all down for saying some people aren’t meant to be in relationships, but were meant to be friends..sometimes not so true. good luck with that lol =]

satish gangwar January 24, 2013 at 12:20 pm

he love to much because old is gold and love is life.

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why did my ex boyfriend text me?

by admin on December 6, 2012

my exboyfriend text me yesterday saying happy thanksgiving. i iasked :who is this?" (pretending i didnt know or care about him) he said michael. after that i was like "oh happthanksgiving to you too" and after that he didnt send a text. i dont understand why he texted me becuase he has been completely ignoring me since i told him we werent meant for eachother and his friend would text me, but never bring michael up…unless i did, which i would just talk bad about him, so i didnt sound interested, i even said i had a boyfriend… but than i didnt talk to his friend for a week and havent talk to michael for 2weeks.
what doe this mean?
ps: i honestly think he takes me for granteed becuase we always get into little arguements like this and i am always the one apologizing but this time i am not.
we have know eachother since we were 10through inlaws (family),and just started hanging out in august, started a relationship and ended it in september.(1month relationship) and ever since that we tried working things out but we always argue over silly things..
i am 16, hes 18

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Burnin' up for you, JOE! December 6, 2012 at 12:20 pm

Well he is either trying to come back to you or just being friendly and saying "Happy ThanksGiving!"

help December 6, 2012 at 12:20 pm

its the holiday
he was looking through his fone and said
hey lemme text (your name here)
dont get confused about it

Dot D December 6, 2012 at 12:20 pm

i think he has just sent a message to all his list

Courtney B December 6, 2012 at 12:20 pm

Well I’m guessing that he was just trying to be nice to you by wishing you a happy holiday, and probably expecting the favor to be returned:)

purple and white December 6, 2012 at 12:20 pm

sometimes people just send that stuff to everyone in their contacts or something. or maybe he just couldnt think of anything to say after you said oh happy thanksgiving to you too.

i think michael wants to begin becoming friends. see how it goes in school.

creazygirl1 December 6, 2012 at 12:20 pm

he wanted to disturb you . i think he wanted to give u an extra tension . just dont think about him

Axos December 6, 2012 at 12:20 pm

It means nothing. it meant "Happy Thanksgiving". When you overthink things of this nature you may set yourself for heartache and pain. I sent a "Happy Thanksgiving" message to MANY people on my phone contact list and two of those people happened to be friends of an ex. It’s nothing and should be taken as a grain of salt.

Baby CoCo December 6, 2012 at 12:20 pm

The only logical reason is that the text message could of been a forward. I did this to all of the contacts in my phone yesterday and said "Happy Thanksgiving". So maybe your number is still in his phone, and he just wanted to send a nice message to everyone in his phone saying that. If he didn’t text you back after you said that, then that just proves my case again. Normally if you send a forward, and people send replies back, saying "thanks" or "you too".. you aren’t going to reply. But hey, I could be wrong.. just my opinion though.

jake December 6, 2012 at 12:20 pm

It means he still has feelings for you and he want to get back together.Or just a simple happy thanksgiving just to be nice?

illmakethetea007 December 6, 2012 at 12:20 pm

He is trying to be nice… or either he wants to get back into ur life.. (as a friend or possible gf..)

tmw December 6, 2012 at 12:20 pm

well usually when a guy randomly texts u after a break up it means that he wants to be friends and in my opinion there is no reason why you cant be friends with an ex boyfriend i am friends with all my ex’s we still talk all the time and by saying happy thanksgiving i think he meant happy thanksgiving and that he wants to be friends lol

larmurk December 6, 2012 at 12:20 pm

well a few weeks isnt long and its natural for yall to avoid each other for a while.
it seems like a pretty bad b/u.
just give it time.
remember nothing happens overnight.
if you want to talk to him and be his friend, then go on and do it.
make peace with him.
if youre not comfortable with that right now, dont.
it looks as if hes trying to be friendly (by sending you the happy thanksgiving text) but trying not to look like he’s actually hurt by it maybe?
idk how yalls relationship was or anything.
but its probably the case.
guys are "too tough" to have emotions. (i hope you caught the sarcasm in that)
so they just hide them.
like i said, give it time.

Chihuahua Addict R.I.P. Gigi! December 6, 2012 at 12:20 pm

That is a question only your boyfriend can answer! Just ask him! Maybe he was just being respectful and friendly wanting to wish you a Happy Thanksgiving! I don’t see why you have a problem with him texting you and telling you that, even if you did break it off with him. By the way you are wording this question, you sound very young and too young to even have a boyfriend! What he did, was perfectly normal! I think you are making a big deal, out of nothing, to be honest!

My Evil Twin December 6, 2012 at 12:20 pm

We aren’t your boyfriend.
We don’t know you or your boyfriend.
We aren’t psychic.
Ask him, not us.

Dasha December 6, 2012 at 12:20 pm

hes just being nice
who wants to hold grudges on a holiday?

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