What do I do when my ex boyfriend suddenly texts me after not talking to me or even bothering for 4 months?

by admin on February 8, 2013

Okay, so to begin he broke up with me. He didn’t give me an exact reason why he broke up with me just that he doesn’t like me anymore. I don’t know what I did wrong or what he did wrong, and the thing is I’m only just beginning to get over him and being ticked off about it. I’ve moved on, and I’m not as happy as I used to be but I’m still happy. It’s been four months since he broke up with me. I’ve only contacted him twice, and both times were failures. The first time I asked to be friends, and he replied saying sure. He still ignored me whenever he saw me and we weren’t friends. The second time, it was his birthday and I wished him a happy birthday three months after the breakup, to be nice and all and I asked about the whole being friends thing and he said he didn’t think it was a good idea. Hypocrite. Four months later, I’ve decided to delete him from my life. I didn’t want any sort of contact with him, and I don’t want to know what’s going on in his life because if he doesn’t care, neither should I, so I delete him off of Facebook as well. Now, last night he sent me a text message just saying "hey". I deleted him off my phone so his number was unfamiliar, I asked a friend later on and she said today that it was him, and I panicked. He hasn’t replied to me, who asked what was up, and if he meant to contact me.

So, basically, what I’m asking is if there is any real hope for either of us? I’ve tried to convince myself that I’m over him and I’m not very successful especially if I don’t know what’s wrong with me for him to break up with me randomly… like out of nowhere. I don’t think I have feelings for him, but I can’t guarantee anything if I start talking to him again… I’m scared he’s going to confront me at school or something, and I’m scared I’ll let my emotions go and scream at him in front of everyone because of the anger that has been building up over four months. I don’t know what’s healthy anymore… Please help?

{ 2 comments… read them below or add one }

Jaron February 8, 2013 at 12:20 pm

break up?

Charity Jones February 8, 2013 at 12:20 pm

Move forward, and leave this loser behind, and don’t look back. You’ll be glad you did.

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