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Should I reply if my ex-boyfriend text message me?

by admin on January 6, 2013

I read articles all over the internet saying if you want your boyfriend back, then we must limit our appearance, go outside his radar and don’t call him, stop all text messages, just simply ignore him. But what should i do if he’s the one who’s sending messages? he texts me every now and then to ask "what are you doing?" etc.. should i just ignore? or be polite and reply in an unattached way? I really want him back.
ps: we go to the same church, so i have to see him at least once a week..

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johnbenren@yahoo.com January 6, 2013 at 12:20 pm

ignore .

defeated January 6, 2013 at 12:20 pm

if you don’t talk to him how do you expect to get back together with him :)

yeah you are right that if you ignore sum1 then they tend to ‘crave’ you a little more…. but there comes a time when they flip and start to activly dislike you for it. you should start replying at least.

g’luck i hope it all works out in the end!

♥Kiara♥ January 6, 2013 at 12:20 pm

well jackie it alll depemds on if you like him or not…if you want him back then go ahead and text ur lil heart out. but if you decfide that you want nothing to do with him then let him that you want nothing to him.and if he keeps texting you then maybe consider getting your number changed.

crazy January 6, 2013 at 12:20 pm

um no because he is a loser and you can do better

pielvr4life January 6, 2013 at 12:20 pm

Well, if you want him back then you should reply and tell him. If the text messages are saying that he wants you back, go for it!! good luck

Charlie January 6, 2013 at 12:20 pm

He may be your ex, but there is nothing that says you can’t be friends for now. If you remain friends with him, who knows, it might help you get back together. In any case, you could end up with a friend for life.

Hockstis January 6, 2013 at 12:20 pm

nope

rachisluv17 January 6, 2013 at 12:20 pm

if you still want to be with him then i would text back short answers like act like you arent happy he is texting you but not mad
like if he says what are you doing? just say something like "hanging out"
when he sees you are a little distant then we will strive to talk to you again

Michael January 6, 2013 at 12:20 pm

yah dont ignore him write him back

Imsocute January 6, 2013 at 12:20 pm

I think there is a limit to playing hard to get. You don’t want to push him away totally. Its good to respond cordially and say something nice every now and then i.e. you looked very nice on Sunday, or it was nice seeing you. Keeping in contact and letting him know that you are paying attention is a small yet meaningful step. Be careful not to go overboard. Don’t make any date offers. Let him do that. Good luck!

C January 6, 2013 at 12:20 pm

if you want to,it depends how you feel about him

lou January 6, 2013 at 12:20 pm

no? :)

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