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mY EX BOYFRIEND TEXT ME TODAY. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN??.??.!!?

by admin on May 30, 2013

my ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago after being with me for the past 2 years (he didn’t want to be in a long distance relationship anymore). we haven’t talked since the break up, but today he asked me how i am out of the blue & then sent a second text saying it’s okay if i didn’t respond and that he just wanted to say hi. i responded by saying i’ve been good, how about you? he then reiterated that he just wanted to say hi and that it’s "been so long since we’ve talked". what the heck does that mean?? what am i supposed to say to that? why is he talking to me now? i thought we were broken up…do you think there’s any hope of us getting back together? any insight would be much appreciated. thanks!

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Macey May 30, 2013 at 12:21 pm

It seems like he’s missing you or that he’s lonely or something like that because guys arent usually that eager to contact their exes..
How you continue depends on if you’re interested in getting back together or not. He contacted you first so its acceptable (in my opinion) for you to bluntly ask what induced him to contact you.
Hope this helped!

Orlando May 30, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Your X is an X for a reason. Maybe things didn’t work out with his current girl and now he finds he’s alone. If your life is going good and your happy, ignore him and keep moving forward. However if you still have feelings for him. Dont make yourself too available, let him work at proving himself and getting you back. Remember if it was that easy for him to leave the first time, he can do it again.

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mY EX BOYFRIEND TEXT ME TODAY. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN??.??.!!?

by admin on May 28, 2013

my ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago after being with me for the past 2 years (he didn’t want to be in a long distance relationship anymore). we haven’t talked since the break up, but today he asked me how i am out of the blue & then sent a second text saying it’s okay if i didn’t respond and that he just wanted to say hi. i responded by saying i’ve been good, how about you? he then reiterated that he just wanted to say hi and that it’s "been so long since we’ve talked". what the heck does that mean?? what am i supposed to say to that? why is he talking to me now? i thought we were broken up…do you think there’s any hope of us getting back together? any insight would be much appreciated. thanks!

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Minji May 28, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Doesn’t that happen often after a break up? He’s worried that how you’re doing after the break up, like if you are heartbroken, feeling sad, whatever,

ke$harocks!! May 28, 2013 at 12:21 pm

he is just worried about you and still cares for you i mean 2 yrs is a long time.. just talk to him as a friend

JayTodoke May 28, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Often people think that when you break up you can’t be friends any more but that’s definitely not true, so just talk to him as a friend and it should be fine :)

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mY EX BOYFRIEND TEXT ME TODAY. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN??.??.!!?

by admin on May 28, 2013

my ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago after being with me for the past 2 years (he didn’t want to be in a long distance relationship anymore). we haven’t talked since the break up, but today he asked me how i am out of the blue & then sent a second text saying it’s okay if i didn’t respond and that he just wanted to say hi. i responded by saying i’ve been good, how about you? he then reiterated that he just wanted to say hi and that it’s "been so long since we’ve talked". what the heck does that mean?? what am i supposed to say to that? why is he talking to me now? i thought we were broken up…do you think there’s any hope of us getting back together? any insight would be much appreciated. thanks!

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Its Cocktail Time! May 28, 2013 at 12:21 pm

He wants to keep in contact in case he can’t find a new girl.

Michael May 28, 2013 at 12:21 pm

sounds to me like hes trying to come back with his tail between his legs. if he knew what real love was and really loved you then he would of never of broken up with you in the first place, hes a jerk because he didnt think it through how you would feel by you two breaking up. i mean 2 years is alot of time just to say, ‘lets call it off’. i would be like ‘are you serious? what?’ i mean i dont know how the relationship was towards the end or in the middle or at the beginning but im guessing he was just feeling lonely and wanted to talk to you, but he doesnt seem to know when he breaks up that he’s not allowed to talk to you no more, i dont know all the details im just throwing out my opinion

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mY EX BOYFRIEND TEXT ME TODAY. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN??.??.!!?

by admin on May 28, 2013

my ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago after being with me for the past 2 years (he didn’t want to be in a long distance relationship anymore). we haven’t talked since the break up, but today he asked me how i am out of the blue & then sent a second text saying it’s okay if i didn’t respond and that he just wanted to say hi. i responded by saying i’ve been good, how about you? he then reiterated that he just wanted to say hi and that it’s "been so long since we’ve talked". what the heck does that mean?? what am i supposed to say to that? why is he talking to me now? i thought we were broken up…do you think there’s any hope of us getting back together? any insight would be much appreciated. thanks!

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Ben May 28, 2013 at 12:21 pm

distance is tough enough , breakup may have been the answer if you hate eachother because of fustration , talk to him fix what u have together , i get angry at my girlfriend sometimes , im longdistance , but this time i went to far and ofended her

Nicole S May 28, 2013 at 12:21 pm

guys work diferently than girls. hes just being nice. dont read into it. its nothing more than a friendly txt. its clear that you still have feeling for him so just dont txt him and get some time away from him untill ur completely over him.

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