My ex boyfriend sent a nasty text message? What can i say?

by admin on December 5, 2012

It says…
How can i let you go id kill for you just to let u know anyone touches you i will kill and im not F***ing around no more u had my daughter things are gonna get ugly cause ive had enough.
What does this all mean? What can i say to him to make him realise he needs to move on? Ive told him over and over i will never go back to him. i dont know what to say anymore. Im happy to be friends beacuse we have a daughter and i dont know what else to say.
I left him over 2 years ago because he had a drinking problem and cared more about his friends and partying than me and the baby.

{ 12 comments… read them below or add one }

Brian December 5, 2012 at 12:20 pm

this guy is out of his mind. if he keeps contacting you and coming near you, get a restraining order. he sounds extreme.

John December 5, 2012 at 12:20 pm

tell him your gettng a restraining order because your afraid for your life becuase you think hes insane

Emmahh December 5, 2012 at 12:20 pm

Maybe you should just let things settle down for awhile and not talk to him. Once you know he is a little calmer you might be able to have a straight conversation with him. The text message seems to point out that he is extremly upset about the seperation .

joellesdaddy December 5, 2012 at 12:20 pm

Let him have the kid and you pay child support for a while. That should put things back in balance.

Liz S December 5, 2012 at 12:20 pm

well it sounds like he’s threatening you and i don’t think you should take it lightly,you should really consider getting the authorities involved.

Forlorn Hope-only 5 suspensions December 5, 2012 at 12:20 pm

he doesn’t want to move on… he’s out of his head…

you need to tell the police… get a restraining order, and warn any guys you start seeing…

mickey p December 5, 2012 at 12:20 pm

Well its in the Definition of friends that the problem. He has to be in your life because of his daughter but in all honesty if hes not listening you need to get far away from him. But you can’t. Just don’t respond to him and take a hard line and threaten to get a restraining order against him if he threatens you or your lovers with physical violence. If that don’t shut him up I really don’t know what to tell you. Keep a rug and a blunt object close at hand I guess. Good Luck to you

sb December 5, 2012 at 12:20 pm

basically, it means hes not over you and is feeling a bit psycho-ish about it. stay away from him :[

Paul R December 5, 2012 at 12:20 pm

text him back playing it cool and say that this isn’t going to happen but if it does then the police will find out about it.

Thats Why Ur Beautiful December 5, 2012 at 12:20 pm

If he sent this during the night, then it’s possible he could’ve been drunk. But still be careful about this. Don’t say anything that can instantly make him angry. If he still sends those messages, then get the police involved or get a restraining order.

BETT'S December 5, 2012 at 12:20 pm

This guy has totally lost his mind, you better be careful though because he sound serious, and you don’t know if he really mean all he had said to you, tell him to stop or you’ll go to the authority.

The_General_Of_The_Sound_War December 5, 2012 at 12:20 pm

I would certainly suggest contacting the police if you are feeling threatened by this , if you do not i would suggest you do it for your child’s safety.Also think about the restraining order idea and maybe try and see if you can get him some drinking addiction help , but certainly contact the police , or if you are comfortable with this call him and talk to him about all of this , but thats only if you feel safe enough to do so.

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