I broke up with my ex boyfriend Rick a year ago. I really loved him but we had to break up because he would beat me. The last time we were together he sent me to the hospital because the beating was so bad. 3 months after I broke up with him I began dating a guy I had met in a town two hrs away. Its a long distance relationship. I love him now and I made a mistake and I need help fixing it…
This morning Rick came to see me for the first time in a year and idk why I let him in…we started talking and I invited him to stay and eat breakfast, when I was cooking he was messing with my phone but I didn’t pay any attention to it. It wasn’t until after he was gone that I notice my boyfriend had texted me "Good morning Mi Amor". And Rick had changed my signature from **N!kki…<3′s…Jan** to ~Nikkol3..<3′s..Rikk~ and Rick had replied to my boyfriends text with "wats up homeboy… –Rikk"
My bf text him back, "wtf r u doin wit Nicole?" And Rick text back, "we’re smokin a stick of dro, she’s mine again" after that my boyfriend didn’t text anything back.
My boyfriend knew about what happened with me and Rick and he knew I use to always smoke weed with Rick so he asked me to stop and I did. I’ve text and called him but he doesn’t reply, he lives two hrs away and I only see him on the weekends, idk what to do, I love him and I don’t want to lose him but I just don’t know what to say to him. I’m not planing to speak or see Rick again. Plz help me, what can I do to have him forgive me and listen to what I have to say?… I know my bf is extremely hurt because it took along time for me to forget about and recover from what Rick did to me and he must hate me now.
I’m 20, my bf is 24 and Rick is 26…idk if that matters???
10 pts for best answer. Plz help, I’ll appreciate any advice, thank you.