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My boyfriend sent me a good morning text but my ex-boyfriend replied…help plz?

by admin on February 7, 2013

I broke up with my ex boyfriend Rick a year ago. I really loved him but we had to break up because he would beat me. The last time we were together he sent me to the hospital because the beating was so bad. 3 months after I broke up with him I began dating a guy I had met in a town two hrs away. Its a long distance relationship. I love him now and I made a mistake and I need help fixing it…

This morning Rick came to see me for the first time in a year and idk why I let him in…we started talking and I invited him to stay and eat breakfast, when I was cooking he was messing with my phone but I didn’t pay any attention to it. It wasn’t until after he was gone that I notice my boyfriend had texted me "Good morning Mi Amor". And Rick had changed my signature from **N!kki…<3′s…Jan** to ~Nikkol3..<3′s..Rikk~ and Rick had replied to my boyfriends text with "wats up homeboy… –Rikk"
My bf text him back, "wtf r u doin wit Nicole?" And Rick text back, "we’re smokin a stick of dro, she’s mine again" after that my boyfriend didn’t text anything back.

My boyfriend knew about what happened with me and Rick and he knew I use to always smoke weed with Rick so he asked me to stop and I did. I’ve text and called him but he doesn’t reply, he lives two hrs away and I only see him on the weekends, idk what to do, I love him and I don’t want to lose him but I just don’t know what to say to him. I’m not planing to speak or see Rick again. Plz help me, what can I do to have him forgive me and listen to what I have to say?… I know my bf is extremely hurt because it took along time for me to forget about and recover from what Rick did to me and he must hate me now.

I’m 20, my bf is 24 and Rick is 26…idk if that matters???
10 pts for best answer. Plz help, I’ll appreciate any advice, thank you.

{ 7 comments… read them below or add one }

Dean February 7, 2013 at 12:20 pm

Tell your bf what really happened, im sure he’ll understand.

Deep February 7, 2013 at 12:20 pm

Just make sure that your bf is not being involved in every matter of yours.The ex-bf is your responsibility to handle not your present bf.

ναℓσя February 7, 2013 at 12:20 pm

"I really loved him but we had to break up because he would beat me."

No guy should ever lay a hand on his woman.

Get rid of Rick fast before he beats your a.s.s. loool!!!

5568897908665456 February 7, 2013 at 12:20 pm

you are retarded. leave town and change your name. and get some common sense. and don’t let people who beat you into your house.

gameface February 7, 2013 at 12:20 pm

I’m not buying your story. Rick spent the night. You know it, your boyfriend knows it and everyone on the internet knows it. So forget about your new boyfriend. You don’t care about getting beat as long as you get your drama on.

Have fun.

Dom February 7, 2013 at 12:20 pm

I’d give him a few days to calm down. Than I would text him and tell him what really happened! Because right now he doesn’t wanna hear it and he is hurting. And maybe you could talk to your ex and see if he could also call him and explain he was just being immature. I’d do it on three way though.

ILLAC February 7, 2013 at 12:20 pm

You need to contact your boyfriend. Ring, text or go up and see him, if you have to.
Say this looks bad. Because it is. But not as bad as you think.
We didn’t have sex. We didn’t kiss, fool around or smoke. We are not together, I am not back in love with him. But I did make a mistake. He came over, I didn’t invite him over and it was a surprise. He took me by shock so I did ask him to stay for breakfast. This was a mistake, I know now just how wrong it is and I will never do it again. But he still has some sort of power over me – but not like he use to. I don’t know why I did it, but I was hoping for a sort of closure out of him, so when I thought back I would have an actual goodbye end moment with him.
I had no idea he was texting you – I never would have allowed that had I known. I never want to see him again. I only love you. I can understand why you are hurt and mad, but I am also hoping it is not so bad that you won’t ever be able to forgive me.
Then apologise and ask for forgiveness.
(Obviously this is just a draft and not everything might be true or I might have left something out – it’s just an idea of what to say) but I think its important to let him know it was a mistake, you didn’t do anything, you have no feelings for him, you only want him, you are sorry and see where it goes from there.

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