My boyfriend, now ex, dumped me in a text message. We had a great relationship & then one day I get this text!

by admin on November 30, 2012

It simply said, "It’s OVER!" I called and texted him three times and he ignored me. We’d been together for five months, mentioned marriage, children, moving to florida together several times. If he wasn’t at work he was by my side 24/7. He isn’t the flirty type, his phone never rang & he never got texts so I know he was cheating. I was/still am very close to his family. They tell me that for the 1st two weeks after he just come home from work & won’t talk to anyone. Just stares at the wall.
Well now it’s been a month since we broke up and he’s lashing out against me. Texts me mean & hateful things when he knows I’m with his sister. He drives by my house. He comes by different places where I am to see what I’m doing?

I’m so confused. I love him a lot, but he’s acting like I dumped him. It’s hard to move on because how do you get closure without knowing what you did wrong? or what happened?

HELP! What do I do?

{ 4 comments… read them below or add one }

Terry J November 30, 2012 at 8:06 am

does he have a mental disease?

klankstillsuffering November 30, 2012 at 8:06 am

1st that is really lame of someone to break up over a text message! He can’t comfront you like a man? Sounds like he’s being an immature baby. You don’t need that. And if he was cheating, you certainly don’t need him. Hang with his sister, ignore his hateful texts, buy yourself something cute at the mall, and try to live day by day loving yourself. You deserve more than someone acting like a loser. It’s difficult because you love him, but try to move on and then see what he does. He might come around and see how much of a jerk he was.
Hope things work out.

sassyred November 30, 2012 at 8:06 am

he could of been cheating and felt guilty about it or so he dumped u and he probably still cares about u so lashing out is his way of dealing. My ex was cheating on me and he dumped me and told me it was cuz he knew I didnt deserve someone like him but he would lash out at me whenever i appeared happy or if i was getting close to another guy and all the while he was still messing with other girls even got one pregant.if i was u i’d just leave him alone and dont feed into his idiocracy.

curioussoul November 30, 2012 at 8:06 am

girlfriend, there could be many reasons why he dumped you without acknowledging you. I hate admitting this but there is no way of getting closure. He’s not gonna talk because of his ignorance. Move on. I know it’s gonna be confusing and hurtful but you must get back to your own happiness. Guys like him are not worth it.

Best of luck!

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