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How do I text my ex – boyfriend ?

by admin on May 12, 2013

We went out for a year , then we broke up because we both were moving schools . next year were going to the same school . we still talk. we broke up in January . anyways he met someone 2 months after we broke up like in April . yesterday he broke up with her and i was the first person he called . and we talked on the phone for 3 hours straight and saturday he was busy and we havent talked since then & he hasnt texted me . i really want to talk to him but i dont like texting him first , im the hard to get person so what do i do . should i give in or wait till he calls/texts me ?
what do you think ?
(ill answer yours if you answer mines)
THANKS ! (:

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. May 12, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Catch up. Ask him if he’s okay and what is new.

Jake May 12, 2013 at 12:21 pm

He probably is waiting for you to text him.. trust me.

Text him saying "soo…" thats a good way to start a convo normally for me?

Gracie May 12, 2013 at 12:21 pm

I had that same issue, just wait for him to, if he doesn’t text you first or talk to you, his loss. Just saying

Anouk May 12, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Well since he called you first, why cant you be the first one to text him? Just ask him how he is doing and that you hope he is okay and stuff like that. He would probably appreciate it if you showed him you do still care for him.

Kiyana May 12, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Lol im just like u i hate calling/txting guys first ughhh -.- its a girl thing but just give it a try and call him first sometimes when they keep calling it makes them fel like you dont care about them or are to busy for them so give it a try . Can u awnser mines? Its boy problems

Liz May 12, 2013 at 12:21 pm

If a guy wants to talk to you, then he’ll talk to you. If he isn’t then he isn’t thinking about you. don’t go too much into it and making up scenarios in your head and stuff…it saves alot of heartache later:( trust me. You cant make him an exception to every rule. wait for him. if he texts you today then you know he wants to keep in touch and you arent just a rebound off this other girl.

Lily May 12, 2013 at 12:21 pm

I’d wait a couple more hours just to be sure he’s not going to text you first, then I’d text him. He might just not be texting you first because he feels the same way you do – a bit nervous and unsure. I’m sure he’d be happy to receive a text from you, just don’t be too full on :)

Alex Lee May 12, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Personally, I say you should just simply text something like "good morning!" That’s what my ex’s did honestly. If he doesnt reply, just let him be, he’s a douche. If he’s interested or happy that you texted him first, he’ll show it. Trust me. Can you please look at mine now :) .

Lisa May 12, 2013 at 12:21 pm

I can not stress enough that it’s always always always ok for the girls to make the first move! If you really want to talk to him, quit playing so hard to get and text him! You not talking to him even though you want to is like; you being really really hungry but not eating because you want some one to bring you food in bed or something. Just text him, call him, go on a date with him. I mean the year of dating wasn’t for nothing, i’m sure.

Billy May 12, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Seriously why is it always the men who have to make the first move? Go for what you want.

I text my ex first sometimes. Why should he have to make all the effort?

Mike P May 12, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Just text him and say it was fun talking and you’d like to talk again. If he texts back, GREAT! If not, forget-a-bout-it!

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How do I text my Ex-boyfriend?

by admin on March 21, 2013

It has been almost more than 6 months since we last contact. I still miss him and hope a chance to get back with him. I didn’t cheat on him. We are in a long distance relationship and he is in the navy. I guess there are misunderstanding between us.

Are there anyway to work things out and advise that you could help me? I text him last night, but still no reply yet. I was thinking of sending him an email. Thank you.
I will choose a best answer & 10 points! :)

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bubblygurl March 21, 2013 at 12:21 pm

there could be something wrong with his phone. I was in a long distance relationship as well. it is difficult but if you have each other it will work.. try emailing and if you still cannot get a chance at least you know you tried. good luck and happy holidays

yellow March 21, 2013 at 12:21 pm

UUUUUMMMM…. i would say writing a letter to him is better, cause that shows u spend time SENDING him that letter and i bet he will feel happy if he recieved a letter:) But remember, NAVY=WATER=POSSIBLE NO PHOnE CONNECTION, but i would say talk to him to clear up the misunderstanding and telll= him ur true feelings about him, plus CALL HIM, DONT TEXT HIM: I LIKE U AGAIN LETS GO OUT. SO YA:)

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How do I text my Ex-boyfriend?

by admin on March 21, 2013

It has been almost more than 6 months since we last contact. I still miss him and hope a chance to get back with him. I didn’t cheat on him. We are in a long distance relationship and he is in the navy. I guess there are misunderstanding between us.

Are there anyway to work things out and advise that you could help me? I text him last night, but still no reply yet. I was thinking of sending him an email. Thank you.
I will choose a best answer & 10 points! :)

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MeAndUTonight March 21, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Send him an email. Ask him why you guys broke up. Try to become his friend. It’s better to know someone poorly, then to have them as an enemy.

old lady March 21, 2013 at 12:21 pm

By all means send him an email. Tell him you’re sorry about the misunderstandings and that you want to straighten things out. But keep everything positive. If he’s in the navy, he’s got a lot of other stuff demanding his attention right now. Tell him you miss him – tell him you’d like to be friends again, and see what happens once he’s home again.

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